Off the Grid for 5 Whole Days!
December 29, 2009
Day 2 was a huge success by all accounts and measures. We completed our first massage (a Lymphatic Drainage Massage at Neo Spa) and took in Mall of Asia. Avatar at the Imax surpassed all our expectations – definitely one of those must-see films to put on your list. I’ve never seen anything like it – a visual stunner! Here we are in our “too cool for school” 3D glasses…
Sad to say, but I’ll be off the radar for the next 5 days. We’re taking a trip down to an island in the Southern Philippines for some New Year R & R. I totally wanted to bring the computer so I could give you the play-by-play in blog posts and photos but Nick and Rachel outnumbered me in the vote and now I don’t get to take it. Kind of nervous… haven’t gone this long without computer in quite awhile! Gotta get to bed so we can get up at the crack of dawn and beat the traffic to the airport!
Since I won’t see you for a few days, HAPPY NEW YEAR in advance!
Rachel Does Manila: Day 1
December 28, 2009
The 24 hours leading up to Rachel’s arrival in Manila were filled with non-stop pacing and a few mini panic attacks. The mix of anticipation, concern and lack of control threw me into a tizzy. Here’s the play by play. She was 45 minutes late out of MSP airport due to a hold-up in Chicago, where the jet was coming from. Then Denver set her back another 45 minutes due to de-icing. It was not looking good. There was a critical connection that she needed to make in Albequerque in order to get to Los Angeles in time for the flight to Taiwan. (Yes, I am well aware that this sounds like a nightmare schedule).
The Albequerque flight was scheduled to take off at 8:35, but they held it until 8:45 when her plane arrived. She ran to the next gate over and hopped on as the gates slammed shut. At this point, we were watching flight tracker but had no idea if she’d made it or not. We assumed the luggage was a lost cause.
I was over the moon when she called from LA to say that not only was she sitting on the Taiwan plane on the tarmac, but at the last minute she’d decided to downsize to a check-on only in case connections were tight. I was in awe (seriously, who can pack in a carry-on for a 2 week trip??? Not me, that’s for sure). We were golden – my friend was really going to make it here! Not such a good start, but I was determined to make it up to her…
Rachel got in around 12:30 and we were home within the hour enjoying Norma’s specialty, Sweet and Sour Pork. 36 hours of flying and she was still smiling! That’a girl! We decided on an afternoon of pampering to keep her awake (she needed to get on our schedule) and went to Henri Calayag’s Salon to get the ultimate hair cut for her. The picture above is the before shot. The “Master Stylist” looked slightly apalled when she told him it hadn’t been cut since April! :)
As I mentioned before, Filipino salons are the ultimate in pampering. In total, the haircut took around 75 minutes. The picture above shows the blow-out, which lasted a good 30 minutes. That was before the “final cut” which took about as long as the “inital cut”.
This is my favorite shot from the day, taken during the “final cutting.” Why bother using a hair clip when you can just have your assistant stand there and hold it??? Thank goodness for the assistant!
Rachel emerged a new woman with healthy, layered locks. Next up we were off to Browhaus to both get a little eyebrow threading done. I was so excited for Rachel since this was her very first time trying it. As for me, I’m on my 4th time and am really starting to see the stylist’s vision for my brows! :)
Here’s the after shot – isn’t she stunning? And all for a mere $25! Now that’s a great reason to stay awake… stay tuned to find out what’s on the big agenda for tomorrow. There’s no time to rest, our days are filled to the brim. I am honestly having a hard time editing the agenda to make sure it’s reasonable. So much to show/do! There’s nothing better than playing host, especially when it’s for one of my dear friends!
The Holidays Done Manila-style
December 22, 2009
Ah, what a strange time it’s been lately. Holiday events wrapped up around the 15th because 50-60% of the expat population was going home. I was doing really well up until the activity stopped and have fallen Grinch-y place over the last few days. It’s just not fun when all the things you associate with Christmas are missing – like snow and sweaters and fires and wild rice casserole. And then there are the strange things that show up – like the fireworks show pictured above that takes place right next to us each and every Friday in December. So weird – Christmas & fireworks? WRONG HOLIDAY PEOPLE.
Yes, I’m crabby. And homesick. But it will pass (because I’m working on an attitude adjustment). There’s just so much ambiguity surrounding this first holiday away (and my first one EVER with Nick). Nothing like longing for the familiar when you can’t have it. And so we adapt. Here’s our current schedule for the 24th and 25th:
Afternoon of the 24th: See Avatar in 3D
Evening of the 24th: Open 1 Present (Nick’s stupid rule- I’d open more), Dinner at a local Hotel & 10 PM Mass
Morning of the 25th: Skype with our families, Open the rest of our presents
Afternoon of the 25th: Host an Open House potluck for anyone that doesn’t have a place to go for Xmas
Seems like it should be a decent itinerary for our first year. I wonder which traditions with stick!?
This week I treated myself to the ultimate in massages, the one I’ve been saving for the perfect occasion, just like a bottle of good wine. Being that I needed a little Christmas pep-me-up, I decided the time was NOW. I went over to my second home, The SPA at Greenbelt and requested the Twin Massage. That’s right, you guessed it, two massage therapists working on me at the same time! And for the unbelievably low price of $30!
SOOO indulgent. One on the top half and one on the bottom for a full 60 minutes. So unique…
It was borderline sensory overload for me. Since I already have problems focusing for any amount of time, it was virtually impossible to try to ease myself into a calm place with that much activity going on. But boy did my body feel good afterwards, even if I didn’t get to the “ohm” place that I usually find during a massage. Definitely a must-try for those of you coming to visit!
PS- I added in a whole bunch of links to other foreign service blogs! You’ll find the hyperlinks in the right column. Enjoy!
Holiday Party at Friendship Home
December 15, 2009
I was in charge of designing a holiday party for the Friendship Home kids. I was determined to make it highly memorable, introducing the kids to a few new holiday activities. It didn’t take me long to decide on cookie decorating for the main activity. Norma was in the kitchen for 2 days baking 60 cookies and making 6 different colors of frosting. It was absolutely sensational – the kids ate it up, quite LITERALLY!
Their favorite part was the sprinkles, which they’d never seen before. There was all sorts of curiosity about what they were. When I demonstrated that they were edible, the kids were awed. All of a sudden, sprinkles adorned every inch of every cookie! Just look at these final products!
I thought it would be best to have two stations that the kids rotated betwen, so I came up with an art project as well. I thought back to some of those classic holiday projects and finally decided upon the one where you wrap a piece of tissue paper around the end of the pencil and dip it in glue to create a Christmas object. I waffled for a bit and almost didn’t do it because I thought it was too basic, but boy was I glad I did. It may have been even more popular than the cookies. Just another reminder that the things I take for granted or consider old and mundane are so fresh and exciting to these kids that have never experienced it before. So great! Here are some of their creations….bring back memories?
Random Holiday Updates
December 13, 2009
I’ve had some fun holiday-related experiences recently that I thought I’d share with you…been running short on time to blog lately, but I’ll try to do better next week!
1. There are lots of holiday work parties taking place right now, as you might expect. The thing that’s crazy about Filipino holiday parties is that every one has an elaborate song/dance competition. No kidding. Everyone gets up in groups to perform and then it’s usually judged. And this is no half-ass attempt – they seriously practice for days. Pretty cool tradition, if you ask me. I can hardly imagine the boycotting of holiday parties that would ensue if the U.S. adapted a similar tradition! HA!!
2. We’ve been pondering what Christmas present to get Rudy for quite some time now. The thing is, he doesn’t really seem to need anything and when I try to question him regarding it, we don’t get anywhere. One day I came up with a brilliant idea though. You see, Rudy lives with his wife, daughter and their two grand-daughters. Wouldn’t it be fabulous if he could take them out for an afternoon of family fun?? We came up with the idea of dinner and an IMAX movie at the Mall of Asia. We knew McDonald’s was a big treat, so off I went to get a gift certificate.
That’s where I started running into problems. Gift certificates are practically unheard of here. After getting a series of “no, mum, not available” I asked to speak to the manager. Oh, it was possible, all right – and fabulously convoluted. In order to get my $10 gift certificate, I needed to place an order one week ahead. Someone on staff would then drive to McDonald’s Manila head office to pick it up. Next I’d be texted that it was available for pick-up and could come over and get it. Unbelievable, huh? It was the only way to get one though, so I did just that. I sure hope Rudy enjoys his family outing!
3. As for Norma, we had a better understanding of what her needs were. Specifically, I knew that she wanted to go and visit her family down in the provinces. It had been 9 years since she’d seen them and they’d never met her daughter who is almost 3. I knew she had looked into boat and plane fares and that she couldn’t afford two round-trip tickets for she and her daughter. Nick and I talked about it one night and decided to contribute 75% of the cost of the plane tickets. We also did the booking for her to ensure that it happened.
It was pretty amazing to see the tears streaming from her eyes when we told her what her present was. So much gratitude for something that only cost us $80……We booked the tickets for a 10 day period in January that coincided with her daughter’s birthday. My favorite part of the story is that when she called and told her Dad the news, he said they were going to kill their best pig, lamb and chicken in honor of their coming! Now that’s going to be one heck of a celebration!
I am feeling so thankful this season for the plentiful resources that we have to share. I learned some powerful lessons about giving in the aftermath of Hurricane Ondoy. I was truly humbled by the Filipinos who had lost a majority of what they had and willingly gave half of their remaining posessions to their neighbor in need. Now that’s selfless. It’s been so rewarding to show our gratitude to the Filipinos in our life that we’ve already come to love. I see much more clearly now how much abundance Americans truly have (even in these hardest of times) and will never take the gift of my citizenship for granted again. We are truly blessed!
Dreaming of a White Christmas That’s Not to Be…
December 11, 2009
Dear Minnesota Friends,
Please stop complaining about the snow on Facebook. I do not feel sorry for you. Yes, I know it’s cold and the hairs in your nose are freezing and that you’re sick of shoveling and your car got towed in the St. Paul Snow Emergency. But that just gives you an extra excuse to treat yourself to Caribou and turn on the fireplace!
I can’t think of anything much better than a snow day – those were some of the most joyful days of the year – trapped in the house with nothing that you “need” to do….
I would pay some serious money for a white Christmas right about now. In my perspective, you are the luckiest people on earth. Who doesn’t love a nice fresh coat of snow for Christmas?? Take my word for it, Christmas just doesn’t feel the same when you’re sweating in a tank top. So don’t expect me to give you any sympathy. I would trade places with you in a heartbeat on Christmas day! Another of the many things you have to be thankful for… just wanted to make sure you weren’t taking it for granted!
And P.S., I have yet to receive a single Christmas Card. Please don’t forget about me – I’m starting to get a bit nervous. Feel free to email if you need my address!
Big hugs,
Sarah
And for my CSB/SJU readers, a little memory of the golden years!
MN Toy Drive – Help Bennies and Johnnies Stuff the Link!
December 6, 2009

The CSB/SJU Young Alum Committee invites you to “Load the Link with Toys for Tots” on Saturday, Dec. 19! The mini-Link bus will collect donations at various Twin Cities stores throughout the day, and then head over to KARE 11 studios to be featured on the 10 p.m. news!
Buy a new toy or gift card, look for the white mini-Link in the store parking lot and make a donation! Gifts for teenagers are especially appreciated. Toys and donations will be collected until 9 p.m.
Please Note: All Alumni and donors are invited to the newscast and following celebration at Cooper’s Pub/Restaurant in Golden Valley.

PLEASE COME SUPPORT TOYS FOR TOTS AND CSB/SJU
Show up in your CSB/SJU gear at KARE 11 studios by 9:45 p.m.
Mini-Link Itinerary:
Week of Dec. 14 to 18
CSB/SJU students, faculty, staff, and Alumnae/i can drop off new toys, money, and gift cards at either campus – Drop sites will be the Gorecki Dining and Conference Center at CSB and Sexton Commons Bookstore at SJU.
Saturday, Dec. 19
CSB/SJU alumnae/i can drop off new toys in the Twin Cities at the following times:
- 9 a.m. Departing CSB/SJU with the mini-Link
- 10:30 a.m. to Noon Shoreview Super Target
- 1:00 p.m. to 2:30 p.m. Woodbury Target
- 3:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. Bloomington Target
- 5:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. Eden Prairie Target
- 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Plymouth Super Target
- 9:30 p.m. KARE 11 in Golden Valley
- 10:30 p.m. Cooper’s Pub/Restaurant in Golden Valley
Dreamy Bali – Photos Don’t Do it Justice…
December 2, 2009
I am well aware that I have been a horrible blogger lately and I promise to make it up to you. Soon. It’s just that there was the honeymoon and then the nasty cough decided to come back for round 2. And those are my current excuses for today. Please don’t stop reading, okay? I promise to write more!
Time to wrap up the honeymoon with one last post about Bali. So here goes… As I eluded to above, somewhere between Siem Reap and Bali my immune system went on the fritz again. It started with a little cough, then some sniffles and poof! there goes all my energy. Here’s the good news: Bali was a great place to be sick. I even had a view from the bed. I’d go take in some clean air, then hit the bed again for a nap. Of the 5 days in Bali, the first 2 I functioned and the last 3 I was villa-bound. Lucky for us we could get all our meals delivered straight to the villa!
Since I mentioned the villa, we’ll start there. And what a villa it was! This was definitely a honeymoon-worthy splurge and oh how we enjoyed it! We stayed in a Terrace Villa Suite at the Viceroy Bali in Ubud. With only 11 villas in the resort, the place felt like it was all ours. We had worked with the hotel to craft a 5 night package for us. It included a bottle of champagne, a flower bath, 2 hours of couple’s spa treatment, a 6 course degustation menu and round-trip transfers.
It far surpassed our expectations. We loved the luxury boutique feel of the resort and the on-demand nature of the staff. If we showed up in the lobby and asked to be driven to town, a car would be there in 5 minutes. The answer was always yes, no matter what the request! And every staff member knew our names and what activities we had scheduled for that day (not sure Nick liked that part as much as me).
Our favorite part of the villa was the terrace area. We had our own private plunge pool (a first for us) and a fabulous Bale hut to relax in. Nick pretty much just rotated between swimming and napping in the Bale. I was more content to lounge on the edge of the pool, sipping my endless Diet Coke (the two-a-day rule goes out the door on vacation) and read books on the Kindle. This was a definite stretch for me — laying around is not in my nature. Luckily, it’s one of Nick’s best skills and he’s helping me ease into it.
When I think back on it, we really only did 4 different things in Bali. We hung out in the villa 70% of the time, ventured into Ubud on 3 different occasions, had a fancy Thanksgiving Dinner at the resort’s restaurant and did a 2 hour white water rafting trip down the Ayung River. Doesn’t sound like much when I write it out like that, but it proved to be a good way to unwind after the long days in Siem Reap.
I was a bit nervous to try out rafting since it had been 16 years since my last attempt. The river proved to be fairly mild though…only class 2 and 3 rapids. Enough to get your heart racing but not enough to bring on panic attacks. One of our favorite parts of the rafting experience was jumping out of the boat and floating down a calm part of the river. The water felt so good! The waterfall was stunning too. Definitely a must-do experience if you’re in Bali! We used Sobek Adventures and they were absolute pros.
I’ll leave you with a few pictures from our Thanksgiving dinner. Our 6 courses were: Bread, an amuse bouche, scallops, soup, foie gras, tenderloin and chocolate lava cake (plus a 2nd honeymoon dessert). Not quite what I’m used to but oh so good. I had a ridiculous-size portion of foie gras (pictured below)! Honestly, the steak paled in comparison. And no one warned me to save room for 2 desserts! Oh well, you’re supposed to feel sick after a Thanksgiving meal, right?
As always, if you want to see all the shots from Bali, head over to SMUGMUG. In closing, I’ll leave you with an adorable shot of my husband, doing two of his favorite things – relaxing and being in the water! Hoping you all had as wonderful of a holiday weekend as we did. Thanks again to everyone who made this trip possible for us!

















































